One of the best things you can do to ensure success as a polyamorist is to educate yourself. You can do this by reading my downloadable documents, visiting recommended websites for those new to polyamory, and by reading the best books on the subject of love relationships in an ethically non-monogamous context - see below.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy nor fear. It is there most pure, perfect, and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve.